Fun Indoor Activities for Rainy Co-Parenting Days
June 14, 2025

Rainy weekends or surprise storms can put a damper on parenting time plans—especially when outdoor activities are no longer an option. But being stuck inside doesn’t mean time with your kids has to be boring or stressful. With a little creativity, rainy days can turn into cozy, connection-filled moments.


Whether you’re parenting toddlers, school-age kids, or teens, here are indoor activity ideas that promote fun, learning, and quality time during your parenting time—no sunshine required.



Why Indoor Fun Matters

When parenting time is limited or structured by a court order, it’s important to make the most of the time you have. Simple shared experiences like cooking, building, playing, or creating can:

  • Strengthen your bond with your child
  • Reduce tension during transitions
  • Help kids feel safe and supported
  • Bring joy into routines that can feel rigid or strained

Even when the weather is unpredictable, your time together doesn’t have to be.

 


Activities for Toddlers and Preschoolers (Ages 1–5)

1. Build a Fort
Use pillows, blankets, and chairs to create a secret fort or cozy reading nook. Let your child bring in books, stuffed animals, or snacks for quiet play.

2. Sensory Play
Create a bin with rice, dry pasta, or kinetic sand and add spoons, toy animals, or trucks. This keeps little hands busy and promotes motor skill development.

3. Dance Party
Turn on some fun music and let your child get the wiggles out! Dancing together is a great way to share smiles and use up extra energy.

4. DIY Art Projects
Set out crayons, stickers, and washable paints for open-ended creativity. Let them make a card for the other parent to promote healthy connections.

 


Activities for School-Age Kids (Ages 6–12)

1. Indoor Scavenger Hunt
Create a list of fun items to find around the house, or hide small toys and make clues. This gets kids moving and thinking.

2. Bake Something Together
Cookies, muffins, or homemade pizza are all great options. Let your child help measure, mix, and decorate—it’s part cooking, part science, and lots of fun.

3. Play Board or Card Games
Choose age-appropriate games that encourage teamwork and laughter. This time builds connection and encourages communication.

4. Movie and Pajama Day
Let your child pick a movie, make popcorn, and relax together in comfy clothes. Turn off your phone and focus on just being together.

 


Activities for Teens (Ages 13–18)

1. Try a DIY Project
Look up crafts or home projects online, like painting a canvas or building a photo wall. Teens appreciate creative freedom and personalized spaces.

2. Cook a Meal Together
Let them choose a recipe and be in charge of the meal. This gives teens a sense of independence while still spending time with you.

3. Watch a Series Together
Find a show or documentary you both enjoy, then plan to watch an episode or two during each visit. Shared rituals create lasting memories.

4. Plan a Future Adventure
Even if you’re indoors today, talk about things you’d like to do together in the future. This could be a summer trip, a new restaurant to try, or a hiking trail when the weather clears up.

 


Tips for Co-Parenting on Rainy Days

  • Be Flexible: If weather changes your parenting time plans, try to adapt without blaming the other parent or expressing frustration in front of your child.
  • Communicate Clearly: If you had planned an outdoor exchange or activity, update the other parent with calm, factual communication.
  • Stay Positive: Your child will follow your lead. If you treat a rainy day as a chance for fun, they will too.

 


Final Thoughts

Rainy days are a great reminder that parenting time isn’t about where you are—it’s about how you show up. Indoors or outdoors, your child craves connection, comfort, and time that feels focused and safe. With a few creative ideas and a flexible mindset, even gray skies can lead to bright memories. 



This post was written by Chelle Hendershot, who is a dedicated Mediator, Guardian ad Litem, and Parenting Coordinator at Hope For Our Future, LLC, with a passion for helping individuals and families navigate through life's most challenging moments. This post is not intended to be legal advice and is for marketing purposes only.


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