Confidentiality Matters!
May 9, 2023

Confidentiality is a fundamental principle of mediation, and it plays a crucial role in the success of the process. Confidentiality refers to the promise that information shared during the mediation process will be kept confidential and not disclosed to third parties. In this blog post, we will discuss the importance of confidentiality in mediation and why it matters.


Creates Safe Space for Open Communication: The confidentiality of the mediation process creates a safe space for parties to communicate openly and honestly without fear of repercussions. Parties can discuss their needs, interests, and concerns without worrying that their words will be used against them in court or elsewhere. This allows for a more productive and effective mediation process.


Promotes Trust and Respect: Confidentiality in mediation promotes trust and respect between the parties. When parties know that what they say in mediation will not be used against them, they are more likely to trust the process and the mediator. This trust and respect create a positive environment for negotiations, which can lead to better outcomes for all parties involved.


Protects Privacy: Mediation is a private process, and confidentiality ensures that parties' privacy is protected. Unlike court proceedings, which are often public, mediation sessions are confidential, and the mediator is bound by ethical and legal obligations to keep the process and the information shared within it confidential. This protects parties from unwanted public exposure and ensures that sensitive information is not disclosed.


Encourages Openness and Honesty: Confidentiality encourages parties to be more open and honest in their communication, which can lead to a better understanding of the issues and more effective negotiations. When parties know that what they say in mediation will not be used against them, they are more likely to share information and explore potential solutions. This openness and honesty are essential to the success of the mediation process.


Promotes Settlement: Finally, confidentiality in mediation promotes settlement. When parties know that the information shared during the mediation process is confidential, they are more likely to be forthcoming and explore potential solutions. This can lead to more creative and effective solutions that may not have been possible without the confidentiality of the mediation process.


If you are considering mediation as a way to resolve a dispute, be sure to choose a mediator who values confidentiality and has a clear understanding of the importance of confidentiality in the mediation process.


This blog post was written by Chelle Hendershot, Registered Mediator, Hope For Our Future, LLC. This blog is not intended to be legal advice or a solicitation for services. It is an advertisement.


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